Refugees Are Strangers in Strange Land
New Life, New Struggles Confront Kurdish Exiles
By Eric Lipton
Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, December 30 1996
The Washington Post
The 13 children spend their days gazing blankly
out their fifth-story window into a world they
know nothing about. Their parents sit silently on
the floor, leaning against bare living room
walls, or pass hours pacing back and forth,
confused, sometimes angry and utterly lost.
Saddam Hussein no longer can threaten the two
families, 18 people packed into this two-bedroom
apartment on 16th Street NW in the District's
Mount Pleasant neighborhood. But the trauma
inflicted upon this group of recently settled
Kurdish refugees is far from over.
Airlifted from the Persian Gulf in the summer by
the U.S. government, Mohamad Arif, his brother
and their families are among the nearly 7,000
Kurds who fled a threatened slaughter by Saddam's
armies and allies.
They are being placed in communities across the
country, including Arlington, Fairfax and the
District, facing an all-but-incomprehensible
culture, language and way of life.
Yes, the Arif brothers are grateful to be alive.
But the shock of arriving in this new world --
where everyone is a stranger and every corner
offers a new struggle or mystery -- has terrified
them.
"What about my children? How can I care for them
if I have nothing?" said Hagi Arif, 46, who came
with his six children, wife and mother. (He, like
most Kurds interviewed for this story, spoke
through an interpreter.) "How will I do it here?
How can I survive?"
The 350 Kurds to settle so far in the District,
Virginia and Maryland are facing a multitude of
challenges: the obvious need to find work and
permanent housing; what relief workers say are
unrealistic expectations that some Kurds had of
an easier transition; and, in some cases, what
officials say may be improper care provided by
the agencies assigned to help them.
Many of the refugees are uneducated and have few
job skills. Others were relatively well off in
their Iraqi towns, with their own homes, cars,
VCRs and other modest luxuries.
"We are starting from zero. We left everything
behind we had," said Nawzad Muradi, 35, an
English-speaking Kurd, who like the Arif brothers
comes from Zakhu, near Iraq's northern border.
"Now we are calling it the past. It is gone. We
did not come here to beg. But it is difficult,
very, very difficult."
Officials from the U.S. Department of Health and
Human Services say they are committed to helping
the families, adding that they plan to
investigate crowded housing provided for some of
the refugees brought to the District.
"We are there for them," said Lenny Glickman, a
spokesman for the HHS Office of Refugee
Resettlement. "We understand that the adjustment
is often difficult, but this country is filled
with thousands of extraordinary refugee success
stories."
The Kurds, a nationless, mostly Sunni Muslim
ethnic group of about 22 million people, have
struggled for centuries to establish an
independent homeland. They live in a mountainous,
crescent-shaped area that stretches across Iraq,
Iran, Syria, Turkey and into Azerbaijan.
In 1991, at the end of the war with Iraq, a
U.S.-led coalition set up a "safe haven" in
northern Iraq for the Kurds and began a $200
million effort to rebuild destroyed Kurdish
villages and farms.
But that five-year-old project collapsed in
August when more than 30,000 of Saddam's elite
Republican Guard troops moved into the area at
the invitation of one of two rival Kurdish
political parties.
The United States responded with a barrage of
cruise missiles to Saddam-controlled territory on
the other side of Iraq, along the southern
border. At the same time, the small contingent of
American troops and relief workers stationed in
northern Iraq since 1991 were ordered to abandon
their posts and cross the border into Turkey.
Suddenly, the thousands of Kurds -- including the
Arif brothers and Muradi and his wife -- who had
been hired by the U.S. military and nonprofit
agencies to help in the relief effort, were on
their own. Also abandoned were several hundred
Kurds who had joined a CIA-backed Iraqi
resistance party.
Within days, more than 100 of these Kurds were
killed after Iraqi secret police went door to
door in the captured city of Irbil to hunt them
down, according to U.S. officials. The remaining
former U.S. employees and CIA-backed dissidents
went into hiding.
"The Iraqi troops had pulled to within 35 miles
from our city, and they were shelling a nearby
town," said Dler Snawy, 30, a Kurdish engineer
who had been overseeing the construction of
shelters in the Kurdish city of Sulaymaniyah with
a U.S.-financed program. "We destroyed all the
files we had in the computers, and we burned any
paper or pictures we had that showed who we were
working for."
The United States, which no longer had personnel
in the area, declined to go in and rescue the
threatened local staff, but it notified its
former employees and their families that if they
could make it to the Turkish border, they would
be granted political asylum.
After seeing a fleet of Iraqi tanks on a nearby
hillside, Snawy decided it was time to get out.
"Some of my friends thought maybe they should try
to kill themselves; they were so sure they would
be killed by Saddam's forces if they were
caught," said Snawy, who has been resettled in
Arlington with his wife, who is also an engineer.
"I wanted to be there to work for my people. But
there was no option. I had to leave my country.
Everything I had done was being destroyed in a
single day. The game was over."
Three waves of Kurds have since been granted
asylum: 2,150 who worked for the U.S. military or
the Office of U.S. Foreign Disaster Assistance
and their relatives; 600 members of CIA-financed
Iraqi opposition parties; and 3,780 who worked
for U.S.-based nonprofit agencies, according to
the State Department.
In each case, they have been flown from Turkey to
a U.S. military base in Guam and then, after
about two months of processing, sent to the U.S.
mainland. So far, more than 2,200 have been
placed in new homes.
When they land, they are turned over to one of 11
nonprofit agencies the U.S. government pays to
help resettle refugees. The agencies are given
$1,000 per person to cover the first month's
worth of housing, food and other expenses.
After that, most families are eligible for up to
five years of Medicaid, food stamps and cash
assistance, although some will be cut off in as
little as eight months.
The amount of help families get appears to vary
greatly, depending on which agency assists them.
One group, for example, was set up in spacious
housing a month ago on Route 1 in Fairfax by the
Lutheran Social Services of the National Capital
Area. Members already are enrolled in English
classes, have been signed up for Medicaid and
food stamps and get about $20 per person a month
in spending money.
"I want to work to live better," said Shivan
Nagim, 32, from Zakhu, a former physical
education teacher who said he worked for the CIA.
"It will be hard, but I am a strong man. I can do
it, and I will."
But a second group of Kurdish refugees, under the
care of the New York-based International Rescue
Committee, hasn't been as lucky.
The 18 members of the two Arif families are so
crowded in their two-bedroom apartment in Mount
Pleasant that nine of them sleep side by side on
mattresses lined up in one bedroom, and six sleep
on the living room floor.
The two families each have been given about $200
a week for food and other expenses, the brothers
said, which doesn't go far enough. They also said
they have not been able to get medical treatment
for their sick mother or to enroll in English
classes. "There is no milk for the children, no
shampoo to wash," Mohamad Arif said. "We have
been left here like we are in a jail."
Nearby, on Adams Mill Road, three other families
with a total of 35 people live in a house so
cramped that several sleep on porches and in the
basement. "If you want to destroy me, keep me
right here," said Ahmad Hussein, 50, whose
12-person family lives there.
Beth Rutledge, director of refugee processing and
placement for IRC, said that the staff members
assigned to Washington cases were away last week
and that she could not immediately respond to
residents' complaints or comment on their
situation. "IRC is always concerned about its
clients," she said. "If either of these groups
has concerns, we really want to address them."
HHS officials said they would investigate the
crowding. "It is obviously something we want to
look into," Glickman said.
But even members of those families set up in more
comfortable housing say the transition has been
traumatic. A small number of them were forced to
leave husbands or wives behind after finding at
the last minute their spouses were not on U.S.
evacuation lists.
For most, everything about the United States is
foreign. They find it strange that they don't
know their neighbors and that Muslims are in the
minority here. They're boggled by the cost of
housing and other necessities and by the reliance
on computers and other technology.
"I ran into someone in the apartment building's
laundry room and I said, `Hello, hi,' " said
Snawy, who speaks English. "He looked at me and
said, `So what?' It is really strange."
Something as simple as taking a bus can turn into
a day-long nightmare for the exiles, as there is
no one to provide directions in their native
language. In many of these traditional families,
women who have never considered working are
realizing that they will need to find employment
to pull their families out of poverty.
The change has left some feeling cheated.
"They lied to us. They told us everything would
be ready," said Salim Abdullah, 29, a former
security guard for a U.S. military compound who
arrived with his wife and child in Arlington last
month. "How can they leave us like this? We would
have been better off back home."
Relief workers say part of adapting to life here
is a realization of what it takes to survive in a
competitive economy. And they say refugees
sometimes have unrealistic expectations about how
much help they'll get here. "People come to this
country with a set of expectations, justified or
not," Glickman said. "There is an adjustment
period."
Still, many of the refugees are quick to express
gratitude and hope for a better future.
"It is a miracle that we are living right now. It
really is," said Muradi, a former translator for
U.S. military forces. "All of us, we are
grateful. We will not forget this, forever."
@CAPTION: Two Kurdish families who fled the
threat of Saddam Hussein prepare to eat dinner in
the two-bedroom apartment they share in Northwest
Washington. They have almost no furniture.
@CAPTION: Sleeping arrangements are simple in the
Mount Pleasant apartment: mattresses lined up on
the floor.
@CAPTION: Turning her back on the television,
Amina Hagi prays in the afternoon.
@CAPTION: For two Kurdish families who share an
apartment in the District, the window and a
television provide glimpses of an unsettling new
life in the United States.
@CAPTION: Shema Hagi, 15, distracts her
11-month-old nephew, Henderin Hagi, while her
aunt Layla Hagi cooks -- for 18 people.
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